Should Wealthy Children Receive Scholarships?

A scholarship is an honor rewarded to student(s) who have exceeded the expectations of certain academic or athletic requirement that is acceptable as a form of payment towards higher education. At least that is how I see it!

I remember being told that good grades and athletic ability are ways to gain college entrance, most every parents dream! It's challenging to be rewarded a scholarship; it takes many years of preparation and responsibility. I read a magazine a few days ago and came across a controversial issue pertaining to Sean "P Diddy" Comb's son Justin, 18. Apparently, Justin was awarded a $54,000 football scholarship to UCLA (Congratulations!). If you do not know who Sean "P Diddy" Combs, he is a hip-hop artist who owns his own label- Bad Boy Records. Money is not hard to come by for him and his family! That being said, his dad is the one with the money; not him. There are parents out there who do have a strong financial situation  that aren't in the entertainment industry. I don't hear people complain about their children receiving scholastic funding.  A scholarship is awarded to the most qualified. Anyone can get one or apply for one, if they meet the eligibility requirements. Why would you accept an award and then give it back or donate it to charity? I mean you can, but you're getting a scholarship obviously it's for school. The money had to be raised and donated some kind of way. Just as one can do for any charity, it doesn't take a certain type of person to give to a good cause. Scholarships are different from financial aid and grants! Students whose parent(s) make over a certain amount of money do not qualify.

In conclusion:
How and what people decide to with their money is their business. The thought of taking away an awarded honor from someone is ridiculous, in this situation- a kid. Really America?! Taking lollipops from the babies.

My Son, My life

.:Christopher J Walker:.

My love

               
         "I love my son more than anything in this world. I knew I was destined for greatness before he came along. When he arrived my purpose became known."

 Some Things I Want My Son to Know

1. Put God first in everything you do!!!!
2. If you can dream it, you can achieve it.
3. People are going to talk about you throughout your life; Let them talk.
4. No one can take your knowledge away from you, Learn all you can!
5. Don't be afraid to follow the beat of your own drum.
6. All things materialistic come and go, including people.
7. Don't worry about pleasing any one but God.
8. It doesn't hurt to try.
9. Failure is not an option.
10. Treat people the way you want to be treated.
11. Don't settle for less than what you deserve.
12. Honesty is the best policy!
13. If the sky was the limit, man would have never discovered the moon.
14. Cheaters never win.
15. It's not where you start, but where you finish.
16. Don't judge a book by its cover.
17. Always be thankful for what have.
18. Give thanks to God during good and bad times.
19. Say what you mean; mean what you say.
20. Your character develops your reputation.
21. Don't commit the crime if you're not willing to accept the consequences.
22. Save money!
23. Without order there is chaos.
24. Don't make promises you can't keep.
25. Life happens when you're too busy making plans.
26. If you can't continue straight on, go around a corner.
27. If you're ashamed to take God and I with you, it'd be best to stay put.
28. I LOVE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS WHOLE WORLD AND I'LL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT!!!

Something for My Pretty, Young Moms

Dear PYMs, 

     A baby is blessing in each and every form. Women are the givers of life! A responsibility not to be taken lightly. I'm not fussing to the teen moms or praising the older established mom/wife. This is for the overlooked population, the "single" young adult mother. We're no longer considered dependent, but still need help. That stage in life where most ladies are engulfed in the social scene, education, working, etc. As if it's not hectic enough already add kid(s) in the mix! Having a baby can make or break you. Almost all my friends have kids and none of us are married. We all go through similar baby daddy situations, just in different forms. I never thought my life would turn out this way, when it came to starting a family. Most young mom's pictured life differently as this age. I love my son so much I try not to let unfortunate situations get me down. In my case, his father and I get along great, but unfortunately we aren't together at the moment. When all is said and done MOTHERS are the ones who are providing. My son sees me 24/7. Therefore it is up to me to make sure he grows up with everything he deserves. Question is "How can I do that when I don't have my life together?". Pray about it and get it right. Short term goals have to be set in order for the long term ones to take place. It's different for everybody. I just recommend you start listening to Joyce Meyers! She is awesome and shows you how to apply the word according to your lifestyle. You have to find strength within yourself because being a mommy is the best hardest job a girl can ask for! I just wanted to let you guys know that you can do it! You are a good mother and none of us are perfect at it. Your baby is watching you- BE A GREAT ROLE MODEL!