You lose! #OrNah

The observant eye least disturbs the fly - Courtney Walker


Some others before me have exclaimed how they'd love to be a fly on the wall when that happened 👀 Why? We all know your watching! Might as well invest in floor seats and hope you get lucky... Or nah.

I am more of the your business is your business type, I've never dreamed to be the fly. Not everyone is for you. #TeamYou is comprised of few. Some people will fake it in your face (the flies) just so they can get a first hand glance at your impending "downfall". The ones who really oppose you will begin to cheer "I knew it" or "I told you so" prematurely. 😒 What?! Really I got up to use the restroom--- what are you talking about... "It's over"... Life just started! The flies are the people who rarely ask how you are or about a certain situation . Then there are those who constantly ask every.time.they. see.you! What is that about? Not everyone is out for bad news. But be careful, stand strong.

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🚨If you are in a possibly life threatening situation this does not apply!🚨

Chirrens (kids) this does not apply; you have to be at least attempting to perfect adulting. Not able to be claimed as a dependent 🙅 Nevertheless, be aware. You can't let negativity from others deter you.

My goal is to stay married to my husband. No divorce! We want to grow old together. Current circumstances... We have a lot of flies trying to come in our household. We don't want our marriage to fall apart, why would you?

☝What they think vs What you know☝

This is She.

Hello?! I cannot believe it has been almost 5 YEARS since I posted aNYthiNG!! No blogs.

Life, although has continued to happen. The roller coaster of growth has been one hell of an experience. Everyone fights their own battles and have no fears exploiting mine. Individuals that know me personally have described me as being 💡 inspirational 💡

The key is to smile... Find something positive in EVERY situation. EVERY. SITUATION.

Life gets hard no doubt. It's very easy to become overwhelmed. That is never an excuse to quit. I take life one day at a time. That's all we can do. I plan, but it never follows accordingly! I guess you can say I "template". In high school I planned on graduating college 4-5 years after graduation. It took me 4-5 years to practice being a college student before I came to! Everyone has his or her flow... When you stop trying to compete with others you'll reduce stress.

Life is what you make it. If I were a recipe I'd be a dump cake 🎂 throw everything in at once but once it's finished it's sweet and delicious 😍😍😆 I surprise myself sometimes!

I'm going to share my struggles in hopes to inspire and motivate. The lesson for today:
"Just keep swimming"  😜